Random Thoughts on Individualism

I liken individualism to cancerous cells to society, some are malignant and some are benign. If you have too much of the former, you embark on a social evolutionary force of society that may not be sustainable. Especially malignant forces that consumes social resources and then breaks foundational bonds between individuals, acting as a divisive force in society. I would also include those who are extremely wealthy and successful individuals here, since they contribute to the income gap and their individual morals act as tribal magnets creating a divisive force.

The benign goes with the flow or fails to seek enough influence or creates enough havoc to be a social impact.

Like malignant cells group together and prosper or grow to form tribes (tumors).

My current bet (not sure), is that a society that concentrates on individualism will ultimately result in a bilateral class structure where one class dominates over the other. The stability and growth potential will then depend on the attenuation of the tension between the classes. Done correctly, the subjugated class may not feel it. Done incorrectly results in a revolution.

All forms of government must face this reality of individualism. The difference is the way in which they manage it. The big experiment of the West is they let the tumors grow. This experiment has reached the typical dynastic period of 200–300 years, so it will be interesting to see if it is still sustainable or not. In the past, there has been self imposed chemotherapies to the likes of wars that perform resets on the malignant cells, so to create more room for individualism to flourish.

Vancouver Trip

On April 9th, 2024 both my wife and I hopped on a flight to Vancouver to visit some friends and family. I got an excellent deal from Expedia for TD paying $1035 CAD for 2 return trips and a rental SUV for the week. We ended up getting a fancy Nissan Rogue for the trip.

We did not do any sightseeing other than Port Moody. Our primary purpose while staying in the City of Vancouver is to sample the Chinese food in Vancouver. This means hanging out largely in Richmond and doing some dim sum.

On the fourth day of our trip, we took the BC Ferries to Vancouver Island, visiting Nanaimo for two days, and spending our final two days in Victoria. We finished the week-long trip by taking a return ferry to Tsawwassen terminal, which is close enough to Richmond for us to get another good Chinese B.B.Q pork meal at HK BBQ Master, which I highly recommend!

Our rough schedule looked something like this:

  • Day 1 – Fish & chips along with ice cream at Port Moody; visited Natalie’s beautiful home on the hills, and gave Zoey (her cat) a nice rub; and then to Burnaby to stay at our cousin’s place and got introduced to Maple our new, small canine friend;
  • Day 2 – Lunch, snacks & dinner in Richmond; love the pineapple bun with its tasty, thick, cold butter; savored the lamb served at Hao’s;
  • Day 3 – Dim sum at Kirin restaurant in New Westminister and catching up with Agnes; followed by dessert at La Foret Jubilee with Natalie joining us;
  • Day 4 – Ferry from Horseshoe Bay to Departure Bay at Nanaimo; did some hiking and scenery;
  • Day 5 – More scenery in Nanaimo and shopping at The Old Country Market at Coombs; What goat on the roof?
  • Day 6 – Drive to Victoria with a stop in Chemainus to inspect the murals, hike on the Kinsol Trestle bridge, with a late lunch at OEB Breakfast, and dinner at Finn’s;
  • Day 7 – Hiked the Beacon’s Hill Park with a huge breakfast at Blue Fox Cafe; met a couple of new friends, one named Lynda at the cafe; visited the Butterfly Gardens; drove along the Malahat scenic views; experienced high tea at Pendray Inn and Tea House; and finally dinner at the Pagliacci’s.
  • Day 8 – Took the ferry back from Swartz Bay to Tsawwassen just in time to do lunch at HK BBQ Master; say goodbye to Derrick and Maple; and back on the afternoon flight to Toronto; Darci welcomed us back home at 2:00am on the following day!

The most memorable part of the trip was of course getting to meet up with our family and friends. The best food from this trip had to be from HK BBQ Master, in my opinion, with an honorable mention of the Banh-mi sandwiches that Derrick got for us from his famous Vietnamese sandwich vendor.

What would we do differently? I think knowing what we know about Nanaimo, we would probably skip all of Nanaimo1 and reallocate the days to be one more in Vancouver and an extra day in Victoria. We would also switch the order of our visit to Vancouver and the Island. This way we can spend more time during the weekend with our friends and family.

With this trip and our visit to Victoria, the capital city of British Columbia, we have completed our tour of all of the provincial capitals in Canada. Checkbox checked!

Below is a summary video produced by Carol of our trip.

Produced, Directed, and Edited by Carol
  1. I decided to visit Nanaimo out of curiosity based on the Gweilo 60 YouTube channel that I follow. ↩︎